"Here is what happened next.
America went to war in Iraq, and my pastor, Veronica, gave a brilliant sermon about how, with the war raging in the Middle East, now was not the time to figure everything out, like who was to blame or whom we would vote for. It was not the time to get a new plan together and try to push it on through. It was time to be still, to get centered, to trust what we've always trusted in: friendship, kindness, helping the poor, feeding the hungry. So, having felt scattered for much of the past two years, I took Veronica's words to heart, and began to get quiet whenever possible, to go for longer walks on the mountain, to sit in beggy prayer and fretful meditation. My mind kept thinking its harsh thoughts, but I'd distract myself from them gently and say, "Those are not the truth, those are not trustworthy, those are for entertainment purposed only."
~Anne Lamott in Small Victories: Spotting Improbable Moments of Grace
I've been in an odd place lately but I think this^ is what I have intuitively been doing. Multiple friends have noted to me that I've gone radio silent on Social Media lately. And I have. Partly because I've been busy living. And partly because I didn't feel I had anything significant to contribute so I didn't mind sitting back.
Big changes are ahead and I feel the fear and excitement of it all.
Not a lot has changed externally yet, but internally, I've been gutted and rewired and insulated. (Many hours of therapy and meditating and pondering and working through stuff.) So. Much. Work. Just like our house that we bought. It was falling down. There were carpets that had to be torn out. Joists rebuilt. Walls insulated. Roof re-shingled. But it's stronger now. It's much more WHOLE. It has been loved deeply. All the way down to the joists. Now is when the cosmetic changes come about. And with ME it is the same way. I tried from the outside in once. It didn't work so well. I tried masking my pain with makeup and new styles or a fake smile. But like painting over rust or MOLD- the paint eventually bubbles until you can't ignore it. So I've done a lot of work. And I can see there is a lot of work ahead. But now that my shelter is stable I can sit for a while. To ponder. To dream. To anticipate. To just BE. And I'm rather enjoying it.
I have come back to the world of social media, but it's different now. Not because it is but because *I* am. I am much more confident to be the AUTHOR of my story. The CONTRACTOR and CONSTRUCTION CREW of my safe place within me.
And I consider that my own Small Victory.
