A friend shared this video by the great Brene Brown (Pronounced Bre-nay). SO powerful! And I tell you what, I've got some things to work on. And I love the encouragement I get from this brave warrior. EMPATHY. Not Sympathy. Seriously. I don't even know where to really go with a full response to this video. But watch it. 20 minutes. Turn it on while folding laundry (which I have slated for the ENTIRE day- I hate getting behind on laundry).
I am afraid of telling people my story. My pain. My life. Because I am worried they will Sympathize and not Empathize. That I will be more shamed for my struggles.
But this is me. My pain. My struggles. They are real. And it is a journey of learning and growing (and many mistakes along the way.)
Where does you lied to me turn into you are a liar? Our mistakes do not define us. At least they shouldn't. Blaming? Ooooh. I identify with THAT.
So watch it and email me what you think. Or comment. Or just enjoy.